Hey Guys,

I hope you have all had an amazing summer and are ready for the last remaining months of the year.

So last week I spoke about refocusing, setting yourself some goals and closing out the year like a ROCKSTAR!  So I trust that got you fired up and ready to to take action in your life.

I was so fortunate to have amazing support from my Husband, family and friends when I started out, but I know that is not the case for everyone.

I have worked with so many people over the years, on my own team and in my coaching business that despite feeling so excited and energized with their new ideas and dreams, they didn’t always feel supported.

You know that doesn’t help us and can actually make us feel pretty low and get us to shrink back into comfort rather than driving forward into the direction of our dreams.

Well I am here to tell you that it doesn’t have to be like that.

When we go out there and tell people our dreams we can attract criticism and people trying to convince us otherwise. It is tough at times, because sometimes that feedback comes from those closest to us.

That is totally normal and happens to a lot of people. I know that because as I became more successful I did get some criticism and some of it is pretty nasty to be honest. I have to admit, that at times it did hurt me, but I have grown to learn how to deal with it.

Here’s the truth. If you listen to those that don’t support your dreams and if you take on the opinions of others, you will never reach the levels of life that you can enjoy and deserve.

It is 100% true. You will be stuck with my dreams still in your head, thinking what if.

Right now I love my life and wouldn’t have it any other way. But it wasn’t always that way and I decided to make change. I decided I would do what- ever it takes until I created the life I wanted.

You can live the life you want to live and you can pursue your dreams and goals in life, no matter how big or small. It is super important to surround yourself with people that are going to support you along the way.

So I want to share this with you to help you prepare yourself and get the tools you need so when those who do not support you come along, you are prepared.

• Know your truth and stick to it.
• Don’t try convince others or change their minds. Let them live their life and you focus on yours.
• Is the person whose not supporting you exactly where THEY want to be in their life?
• Mentor with those you see taking action. Not those judging others who do.
• Surround yourself with people who believe in you, love you and support you no matter what.
• Don’t focus another ounce of energy on the naysayers and don’t let them talk you out of your goals and dreams.
• At the end of your life you don’t want to look back in regret and wonder what-if, but look back and say WOW…I actually took that adventure on fearlessly.
• Focus on your goals every single day and don’t give up.
• Is the person you're taking advise from someone who is successfully living THEIR dream?

So here’s my challenge to you.  Identify the people who don’t support you in your life. Don’t judge them, just release them and start looking for people who will love, support and uplift you in your life.

XO

Hayley